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Shibas
are addictive, and most Shiba owners find it impossible to fight
the urge to add 'Just One More'. The reasons most often given for
adding another Shiba are; my companion is bored, lonely, or needs
a playmate. Like most dogs, Shibas live in the moment. When there's
nothing to do, they spend their time conserving energy until something
spurs their interest, then explode into Shiba play. It's hard to
say whether a Shiba pines for a playmate, and difficult to know
if adding another Shiba will make a difference in their life. One
thing thats certain is a Shiba will accept a new addition, or not,
but only on its own terms. Even though a Shiba enjoys playing with
other dogs, sharing its home and people with a new addition may
be a whole other issue.
Will
they welcome the addition as a new pack member, or will they see
a poacher in their territory? A new Shiba may be seen as more of
a threat or intruder than a playmate, so don't assume the existing
Shiba will understand an owner's good intention, or agree with the
choice. An addition is competition in a world that was solely their
domain. It's times like this when an owner's leadership will be
tested to the limits.
Introduction
and presentation of the new addition will set the mood for what
will follow. Care needs to be taken when asking a Shiba to change
its world, much the same as bringing a new sibling into the family.
It isn't possible to prepare a Shiba in advance for the new arrival,
except socializing with other dogs, so taking the time to validate
their position in the pack after the introduction is crucial. The
future growth of the pack depends on it. An owner understands this
is an addition, but will the existing Shiba feel 'replaced'?
Quick
decisions regarding feuding Shibas will become an everyday occurrence
for an owner in the beginning. Planning ahead by assigning a pack
order will help considerably when split second responses are needed.
Keeping the pack order not only reinforces an owner's position as
pack leader, but also reduces fights for pack order between the
Shibas. Obedience training and socialization is a must for a new
addition. It will help form the bond needed between owner and companion,
and secure an owner's position as alpha. During this training time,
guidance and patience will be needed, but allowing for slips with
unacceptable behavior can lead to turmoil between pack members.
It's not uncommon to see the existing Shiba revert or exhibit unacceptable
behavior when the new addtion challenges authority and rules. When
there's jealously or uncertainty about worth, getting attention
becomes top priority, whether the attention is negative or positive.
Even though unacceptable behavior will bring a reprimand, that's
attention, and for a Shiba feeling less than confident, that's better
than no attention at all. Inconsistency in expectations from either
Shiba can cause unrest. Rules are to be followed. Breaking rules
needs addressing immediately.
It
can take as little as a few weeks or up to months for a new addition
and existing Shiba to complete the transition. When owners say a
trial period is needed to see if a new Shiba will work in the pack,
with a guarantee to return if it doesn't, is the weakness in the
existing Shiba's inability to accept an addition, or an owner unable
to lead the pack? In all fairness to Shibas, a better guarantee
might be an owner's resolve to make it work, no matter what or how
long it takes. Returning Shibas only adds more baggage to what they
already have, plus it sends a message to the existing Shiba they
control more than they should be allowed to control. If there's
an uncertainty whether a new addition will work, then possibly more
time is needed to form a stronger bond with the existing Shiba before
committing to the lifetime of an additional Shiba.
An
owner's biggest job will be to insure the existing Shiba feels comfortable
with the new addition, confident about its place in pack order,
and that its not being 'replaced'. As leader of a growing pack,
an owner's position will be tested daily. The confidence gained
through obedience training will be a lifeline during these times.
An owner will feel more positive about decisions made because there
will be a source, an obedience trainer, to draw from whenever there
are questions, or problems. Without that support and guidance, an
owner can become overwhelmed, and not give the pack relationship
the time needed. What worked for the first Shiba may not work for
the new addition, so an owner has to be prepared to learn new techniques
and approaches while being consistent with existing rules and commands.
Patience, understanding, fairness, while remaining in control of
all situations is easier with a support system. Although it may
seem hopeless at times during the transition, an owner's time and
effort will be rewarded when two Shibas curl up together or enjoy
a day of romping outside. Forming a pack with Shibas can be a challenge.
Some days everything seems positive, other days not so much, but
remaining focused on a goal to make it work will eventually help
the pack succeed. When that goal is reached, the biggest challenge
for an owner is to quiet the urge to add 'Just One More'.
"Just
One More"...Adding or Replacing was written by Carolyn Sanford
for Northeast Shiba Rescue Association, Inc. It is the property
of NESRA and is not to be used in whole or in part, without the
prior written consent of Laura
Paquette.
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